Not all love stories have a HAPPY ENDING!!!!

We always had a notion as a Love Story should always have a HAPPY ENDING!!!!But this does not happen in all the love stories. When people talk about love stories they seem to connect only to Romeo and Juliet (the VIDESI version) and as far as the hindi version goes it’s Mumtaz and Shahjahan….
I am sure most of the Girlfriends out there ask their lover boy or according to them as “the perfect SOULMATE” that what can you do for me?????
Love is not about doing for me,how much you love me and all that….
There’s much more added to it. Some of us think of it as A GIVE AND TAKE POLICY between two people…
But love between two people is where in one can trust and the other has the ability of understanding .Love is a beautiful
The reason why I am talking about love is……
I have read this book called “ I TOO HAD A LOVE STORY” by Ravinder Singh which is a beautiful book which explains about love.The initial days of love.When two people fall in love with each other,their feelings towards each other,the promises they make to each other and what not.
Life is not how we plan it.While we be busy planning our lives GOD above there has a different plan for us.We really don’t know what’s in store for us ???what’s gonna happen to us????
Forget about the next couple of years…. We are not even sure what will happen in the next couple of minutes or hours.
This Story which I read is a must read for all. It’s a simple story a boy meeting a girl and they falling in love and have made plans of staying together for the rest of their life.
But as I earlier said you never know what’s gonna happen when, where, how????
This is what exactly what happens between the two……
The love between them is pure and true that they can actually sense and get to know when they need space, need time, are tired, angry, sad…… .Even distance doesn’t matter to them.
This is understanding and the trust that the two of them share with each other.
But as I said earlier …… Destiny shorly some different plans for all of us in fact and this is what happens to the two of them in the book.
Death does them APART!!!!!!
The girl dies in a road accident…… 
Shattering right….. I know….. 
The worst part is when your loved one is declared dead on a day when the two of you would be entering into a new phase of your LIFE!!!!
This is exactly what happens between the two characters of the story…..
This book totally brings tears to your eyes….  and the worst part is when you actually get to know that this STORY IS A REAL ONE……….. 
You are even more shattered when you get to know that this is the AUTHOR’s TRUE Story……. 
This is a must read book by everyone…
A book which describes the beautiful bond shared between the two of them, their happy times, the times they were away from each other, the time they would spend thinking about each other, their expectations, their promises…… and of course the UNFAITHFUL incident….. that separates the two of them…. 
Hats off to Ravinder Singh for sharing his story with us….
An amazing book to be read… and how can I forget do u guys know that there’s an audio book also which is released….. 

The Gift... :)

The Gift of Listening:
But you must really listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.

The Gift of Affection:
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and hand-holds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.

The Gift of Laughter:
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "1 love to laugh with you."

The Gift of a Written Note:
A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.

The Gift of a Compliment:
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone’s day.

The Gift of a Favor:
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

The Gift of Solitude:
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

The Gift of a Cheerful Disposition:
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it’s not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.

OLDIES.... and the YOUTH of today

Wonder whats with these old people.. they seriously have no better work in life and they start irritating  us, they have termed us the young generation of today's world. Yet they pester us with their old thoughts and ideas and want us to follow their ideals.

They can't get it clear that girls are far more superior than boys and even they deserve a chance. All they think is that girls have to only get married and settle down, give birth  and take care of kids be a good wife, a good mother... Whats with all the good….good daughter, good neighbor, good cousin….man!! good grandmom too :P.

They still cant accept the fact that girls are walking at par with boys. In fact I personally feel we gals are a step ahead of them. I am a firm believer of “ Woman who are called the weaker sex is the very weakness of Man”.

The moment a girl is in her graduation, these old people suggest to the girls parents to start looking out for boys, the moment she is married they start asking when are u gonna get pregnant? Ooof!!! After graduation, the girl's post grad is MARRIAGE.

Trust me!!! the worst part is, if u have relatives who ask you to perform a set of rituals and offerings to god and to some extent can even start bribing God. I have this funny and wierd relative of mine who told my mom to order god. Can u beat that,hahhaa..

These oldies call themselves very broad minded, hep but i feel they haven't changed at all,fakers :P. Oldies are the biggest gossip mongers in town. You can actually hear them saying OMG!(oh my god) she's married for 5 years and still is not pregnant.Is everything alright between her husband and in-laws???OMG!she is getting married.OMG!she is 24 and still not married?Is she having an AFFAIR with anyone. Oh yeah she is having a love marriage with the guy who does not belong to our community??Get a break people you oldies.

Trust me its a nightmare being with these ppl and you have had it if you are left alone with them.They fondly come poking you at someone's wedding oh next!is your wedding or else when will i see you like this???It gets on my nerves and one day i was attending a funeral and some oldy(ok oldy for singular and oldies for plural sex no bar) i fondly, poking went and said i think the next one will be yours. Then, there is the next category of SUPER OLDIES(who are in their late 70's) who start off their EMOTIONAL ATTYACHAR will i be alive for your marriage??Trust me if the government gives me an opportunity to shoot out the people who i hate it would be my relatives in this category.Get a life People.

 The OLDIES never understand what it means for a girl to be independent or rather let me put it up like this FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT.Why u want to study further enough enough STOP STUDYING AND LEARN COOKING,HOW TO PRAY TO GOD,THE RITUALS AND CUSTOMS and what not.They still keep themselves in the 10th century.In spite of watching television where in almost every field let it be Bollywood to Sports,  you name it Girls are not left behind they have walked in par with Boys and can do everything that a boy can do and cannot do. In fact it is the YOUTH of today especially the girls,the women of today who very well know how to MULTITASK, who can at the same time go for work,take care of the family financially as well as emotionally and morally and can even run the family independently.

Girls are no longer in need to get settled in a hurry we all very well know how to plan our lives properly because we want to have a secure future and a life ahead. With the increasing awareness in so many matters today's YOUTH very well know how to manage our present as well as our future.All i want to say is that please dont have the notion that girls are to get married early and settle down.Allow us to pursue our dreams and ambitions.

All i want to say is that WE GIRLS,WOMEN all over the world ROCK!!! and we don't need a MAN to complete us. Cheers to all the women of today.!!!!!!.... :)